"And my people shall dwell in a peaceable habitation, and in sure dwellings, and in quiet resting places." Isaiah 32:18

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Bloomin' Time

It looks like October's cooler weather did the trick for my Christmas cactus plants.   They developed a boatload of buds over the last several weeks and now my favorite plant is just bursting with color.   The cactus should be in full bloom next week, just in time for Christmas!   Yippee!



The cooler weather also makes me want to knit.   Knit socks, knit scarves, knit whatever!   My fingers just itch to knit something, anything.   Here's what I've been busy knitting over the last couple of months.....

These kooky looking things will soon be flowers that can be pinned onto jackets, purses or whatever suits your fancy.   They still need to be thrown in the washing machine and "felted" using hot water and lots of agitation.   Since they were made with pure wool, they will shrink up and curl up and become nice and soft.....you won't even be able to see the individual stitches, just smooth, thick, plushiness!


Here's a peek at the backside of the pink one.   Notice the long lime green stem?   After I have them all felted, I'll show you pics of them all completed.

And here are the socks I finished last month.  I thought you had to have 20 different yarns to make a pair of socks like this.  Well, I was wrong, you just have to find the right yarn that is dyed in small increments so that you get these fun patterns developing as you knit!   I love it so much that last night I started another pair of socks with a different yarn.   Knitting these things is addicting!   And it's something productive to do at night while watching tv with Joel.

Now, this one will stump you for sure.   It looks like an alien clamshell.......or something........It's going to be a purse.   Yeah, I know, doesn't look like much now, does it?   Well, this baby also has to be felted in the washing machine.   Then, I will sew it onto a frame and you'll see the final results soon.

Suffice it to say, I'm having way too much fun with all of this.  More pics later.  Only 9 days until Christmas so maybe I should put all this away and concentrate on finishing my Christmas shopping and baking.......

Happy Shopping,
Debbie




Monday, December 10, 2012

Dirt, Figs and No Broccoli

Weird title, huh?   It'll all make sense soon, just keep on readin'.....

So, we put Molly outside to do her business and she was so quiet that we kinda forgot about her.  Our backyard is completely fenced in and she is safe out there and sometimes she just likes to roam around looking for lizards to chase or she lies near the french doors watching the squirrels.  When we finally brought her in she was a mess.  Obviously she was digging in some dirt somewhere and she proved once again that she is a tomboy.
Pretty dirty, wouldn't you say?
What a mess!  She is so used to being cleaned up when she comes in from outside that she patiently holds still while we scrub her clean again.  What a funny dog.....

Now, onto the next subject, figs.   I've been checking on the fig tree everyday so that when the figs are ripe I pick them before the squirrels and racoons get them.   Unfortunately, they have to ripen on the tree because if you pick them before they are ripe, they won't ripen sitting on your counter.   It becomes a contest to see if I get more than the critters that invade our backyard.  This season I am winning so far.  
Aren't they beautiful?   I love them.   They are so perfectly shaped and delicious to eat.  Each season the harvest gets better and better.

Hmmmmm, so how about the "no broccoli" you ask?  Remember this from several weeks ago?  

My beautiful, healthy broccoli plants and all the lettuce were growing so well.  I went out to harvest the lettuce for salad and this is what I found:
Yup!   I know!  I was surprised,too.............and ticked...........someone ate every single plant down to a nub.   How irritating it that?  Next time I'm putting some sort of mesh screen around them.   Darn....
it is kinda funny now that a few days have passed.   Good grief, someone was really hungry to have eaten everything like that.

So it's the start of another new week and I'm turning my focus toward preparing for Christmas.  I have finished all the work promised to clients and I can just relax and "do my own thing" for a couple of weeks.   And Jeremy is coming in 12 days to stay with us for a week!  

Good times,
Debbie

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Football Food

Anyone who knows me well, knows how much I love football and football season.   I mourn when the season is over, so, it is with great patience that my husband indulges me every Sunday from August to February as I watch as many games as I am able.   Today I decided to make hearty football food as we watched the Giants and the Saints.

 We bought a loaf of gluten free Italian bread yesterday and I cut it in half midway across the loaf and cut that one end in half again lengthwise.
Then I scooped out the middle of each half so it wouldn't be so "bread-y".   The bread I pulled out will get dried in my dehydrator and turned into breadcrumbs.

Yum, nothing smells as good as meatballs simmering in sauce.  These I made last month and had frozen for sandwiches.   All I had to do today was thaw and warm up.
Next, I loaded the sandwiches with meatballs and sauce.  Almost there.....


 Provolone cheese slices go on top.
Then I popped them under the broiler for a few minutes.   Watch them closely so as not to burn them.
Add a small salad and dinner is served..........on tv trays..........in front of the tv during the third quarter of the game.   Yum, dinner......done!

There's another game at 8!
Debbie

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

River Crossing Thanksgiving

This was a quiet Thanksgiving for us with Jeremy now living in Sioux Falls.   And as it was Jarrad and Dawn's year to spent the holiday with her family, Joel and I decided to spend Thanksgiving up at the river, A.K.A., River Crossing.  It was so relaxing to walk the dogs in the cool morning air and we finally got to enjoy our newly enclosed back porch.   Every morning, Joel and I took our coffee out there and rocked on the new rocking chairs as we chatted and sipped our caffeine of choice.  It actually got down to 38 degrees several mornings!

I had cooked our turkey at home before we went to the cabin because I have limited pots and pans up there.   Wow!   Did that ever work out nice?   I loved just warming up the sliced turkey and making the gravy from all the juices I had saved the day I roasted the bird.   Then, the only other thing to make was my kid's favorite.......stuffing!   Yum!   Cornbread crumbled up and cubes of seasoned bread studded with Granny Smith apples, raisins, and pecans mixed with sauteed celery and onion.    Hmmmm, maybe I need to make some more of that............and not wait for a holiday.

Julie, Cameron, Sydney and Jackson arrived early in the afternoon just as everything was ready to come out of the oven.   Julie had made the sweet potato casserole, the mashed potatoes, the best pumpkin pie I have ever eaten and a gorgeous two crusted apple pie.  



There was certainly nothing upscale about our table this year, but I sure did a lot less work and I enjoyed everyone's company a whole lot more!



Yum!   I could eat this meal all over again!  

All in all we had a truly relaxing day together and ended it with a fire in the fire pit.    The kids and I  toasted marshmallows and Jack had s'mores since he doesn't care for pie.   The rest of us dug into pie and coffee.  

 


What a great way to spend the day, eating yummy food with loved ones, enjoying the fresh, cool outdoors and relaxing by a fire.   Ahhhhhh, more of that , please......
Just me and my favorite guy..........sitting on our deck.......by the fire........doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!     Can you believe it?    There are so few pics of me, over the years, where I am actually sitting still, that I'm sure you can't believe I could do that...........sit still, that is.   Well, I'm learning how....... 


River Girl,
Debbie

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

A Little Radio Time


 I know the economy is not exactly a "light hearted" topic, but I love you.   All of you.   And I want the very best for you.   Really......so please click on the link below and listen to Mark Levin interviewing former U.S. Congressman Archer regarding the "fiscal cliff".   It's less than 15 minutes long, and the first 7 minutes contain some of the most important info.   Come on, you've got 7 minutes, so just do it.   
 
This isn't about politics for me, this is about preparing yourself to be a little more self sufficient if our economy greatly declines so you can feed your family and take care of them.  Please take 7 minutes to consider the direction our country is taking. 




http://www.therightscoop.com/mark-levin-interview-inflation-is-coming-and-it-will-devastate-the-economic-environment-for-every-american-family/

Thank you,
Debbie

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Show Me The Money!!


Remember that line from the movie, Jerry Maquire?   Well, I ran across this article and thought you might be interested.  So, am I the only one that kinda freaks out when I read this article?  Scary stuff, friends, scary stuff.  Keep praying and plant more corn!   LOL

Read on,

Debbie

 

Why $16 Trillion Only Hints at the True U.S. Debt

A decade and a half ago, both of us served on President Clinton's Bipartisan Commission on Entitlement and Tax Reform, the forerunner to President Obama's recent National Commission on Fiscal Responsibility and Reform. In 1994 we predicted that, unless something was done to control runaway entitlement spending, Medicare and Social Security would eventually go bankrupt or confront severe benefit cuts.
Eighteen years later, nothing has been done. Why? The usual reason is that entitlement reform is the third rail of American politics. That explanation presupposes voter demand for entitlements at any cost, even if it means bankrupting the nation.
A better explanation is that the full extent of the problem has remained hidden from policy makers and the public because of less than transparent government financial statements. How else could responsible officials claim that Medicare and Social Security have the resources they need to fulfill their commitments for years to come?
As Washington wrestles with the roughly $600 billion "fiscal cliff" and the 2013 budget, the far greater fiscal challenge of the U.S. government's unfunded pension and health-care liabilitBuies remains offstage. The truly important figures would appear on the federal balance sheet—if the government prepared an accurate one.
But it hasn't. For years, the government has gotten by without having to produce the kind of financial statements that are required of most significant for-profit and nonprofit enterprises. The U.S. Treasury "balance sheet" does list liabilities such as Treasury debt issued to the public, federal employee pensions, and post-retirement health benefits. But it does not include the unfunded liabilities of Medicare, Social Security and other outsized and very real obligations.
As a result, fiscal policy discussions generally focus on current-year budget deficits, the accumulated national debt, and the relationships between these two items and gross domestic product. We most often hear about the alarming $15.96 trillion national debt (more than 100% of GDP), and the 2012 budget deficit of $1.1 trillion (6.97% of GDP). As dangerous as those numbers are, they do not begin to tell the story of the federal government's true liabilities.
The actual liabilities of the federal government—including Social Security, Medicare, and federal employees' future retirement benefits—already exceed $86.8 trillion, or 550% of GDP. For the year ending Dec. 31, 2011, the annual accrued expense of Medicare and Social Security was $7 trillion. Nothing like that figure is used in calculating the deficit. In reality, the reported budget deficit is less than one-fifth of the more accurate figure.
Why haven't Americans heard about the titanic $86.8 trillion liability from these programs? One reason: The actual figures do not appear in black and white on any balance sheet. But it is possible to discover them. Included in the annual Medicare Trustees' report are separate actuarial estimates of the unfunded liability for Medicare Part A (the hospital portion), Part B (medical insurance) and Part D (prescription drug coverage).
As of the most recent Trustees' report in April, the net present value of the unfunded liability of Medicare was $42.8 trillion. The comparable balance sheet liability for Social Security is $20.5 trillion.
Were American policy makers to have the benefit of transparent financial statements prepared the way public companies must report their pension liabilities, they would see clearly the magnitude of the future borrowing that these liabilities imply. Borrowing on this scale could eclipse the capacity of global capital markets—and bankrupt not only the programs themselves but the entire federal government.
These real-world impacts will be felt when currently unfunded liabilities need to be paid. In theory, the Medicare and Social Security trust funds have at least some money to pay a portion of the bills that are coming due. In actuality, the cupboard is bare: 100% of the payroll taxes for these programs were spent in the same year they were collected.
In exchange for the payroll taxes that aren't paid out in benefits to current retirees in any given year, the trust funds got nonmarketable Treasury debt. Now, as the baby boomers' promised benefits swamp the payroll-tax collections from today's workers, the government has to swap the trust funds' nonmarketable securities for marketable Treasury debt. The Treasury will then have to sell not only this debt, but far more, in order to pay the benefits as they come due.
When combined with funding the general cash deficits, these multitrillion-dollar Treasury operations will dominate the capital markets in the years ahead, particularly given China's de-emphasis of new investment in U.S. Treasurys in favor of increasing foreign direct investment, and Japan's and Europe's own sovereign-debt challenges.
When the accrued expenses of the government's entitlement programs are counted, it becomes clear that to collect enough tax revenue just to avoid going deeper into debt would require over $8 trillion in tax collections annually. That is the total of the average annual accrued liabilities of just the two largest entitlement programs, plus the annual cash deficit.
Nothing like that $8 trillion amount is available for the IRS to target. According to the most recent tax data, all individuals filing tax returns in America and earning more than $66,193 per year have a total adjusted gross income of $5.1 trillion. In 2006, when corporate taxable income peaked before the recession, all corporations in the U.S. had total income for tax purposes of $1.6 trillion. That comes to $6.7 trillion available to tax from these individuals and corporations under existing tax laws.

In short, if the government confiscated the entire adjusted gross income of these American taxpayers, plus all of the corporate taxable income in the year before the recession, it wouldn't be nearly enough to fund the over $8 trillion per year in the growth of U.S. liabilities. Some public officials and pundits claim we can dig our way out through tax increases on upper-income earners, or even all taxpayers. In reality, that would amount to bailing out the Pacific Ocean with a teaspoon. Only by addressing these unsustainable spending commitments can the nation's debt and deficit problems be solved.
Neither the public nor policy makers will be able to fully understand and deal with these issues unless the government publishes financial statements that present the government's largest financial liabilities in accordance with well-established norms in the private sector. When the new Congress convenes in January, making the numbers clear—and establishing policies that finally address them before it is too late—should be a top order of business.
Mr. Cox, a former chairman of the House Republican Policy Committee and the Securities and Exchange Commission, is president of Bingham Consulting LLC. Mr. Archer, a former chairman of the House Ways & Means Committee, is a senior policy adviser at PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP.

Monday, November 19, 2012

The Great Outdoors

It is absolutely gorgeous outside this morning and I was blessed to be able to take my cappuccino out to my new swing and start my day.......still in my jammies......listening to the sounds of hammers and saws.   What!?!   Yes, our backyard neighbors had contractors strip their house down to three exterior walls and now they are building a two story house.   Yup, kinda loud starting at 7:30 in the morning.   Anyway, I digress....

So, I was out there sipping my cappy and I realized I hadn't blogged in a few weeks so I brought my camera out with me and took a few shots.   Last week our yard guys spread seashell under the new swing and removed the shell from around the palm and lilly of the nile plants.   Ummmm, I was killing them because when I had them put the shell down 6 months ago I was unaware that  the shells would leach calcium into the soil around the plants and kill them.   Yes!   I know!    Now, the plants are calcium free and should recover. Lesson learned.  
They used up all 3 yards of the mulch and only got half way around the yard, which meant I had to order more.   That will be delivered and spread down next week after Thanksgiving.  It is looking a lot better in the backyard now that the bare dirt is covered and the dogs are not tracking gritty/sandy dirt into the house as much as they had been.   Bonus!

This part of the yard is a work in progress.   I love the old rusted out shabby chic chair and our painted mirror behind it.  Maybe I'll build a plant box to sit on the chair with some plants draping down around it.   After Christmas!!!    And speaking of Christmas, I can hardly believe it's Thanksgiving week already.   Wasn't it just Labor Day?

Here's a shot of the proposed orchid house area of the yard.   Not sure when or if it will ever get done, but for now, at least there is a "floor" there of seashells and I moved our table and chairs over there since it is in shade this time of year.   The vine covering the old gate has gone crazy!!   I love the blooms covering it.

Oh, yeah!    And this weekend we had Jarrad's boys stay with us while mom and dad went to a wedding in Sarasota.   Because Jeremy's room was empty and we haven't put any beds in there yet, I improvised and we made a tent for them to sleep in, complete with lights.  They seemed to have fun playing in there.   We went to Heritage Village and petted farm animals and gave them a chance to run around checking out the old buildings there.   On Sunday we played at the local playground until they decided they were hungry for lunch.  I guess they were worn out because Nate requested an apple around 2 o'clock and promptly laid down on the living room rug and fell asleep with it in his hand!

Oh, yeah, I also checked on my garden.   The tomatoes are coming along nicely and starting to get some blossoms.   Yippee!  And the herbs are going crazy, can't wait to dehydrate them for use this next year.  

The broccoli and lettuces are also looking strong and sturdy.   I see some fresh salad from the garden in the not too distant future.   I would much rather cut fresh lettuce from the garden than buy it from the store.   Hope we can keep the critters away from our harvest.   The figs on the fig tree are getting bigger and bigger and I am watching them to see when they turn from green to dark plum and then I can pick them.   Yum!

More veggies to come,
Debbie

Saturday, November 3, 2012

What a Week!

Well, hurricane Sandy left quite a mark on the northeast.  We've been in touch with our family and friends up there and fortunately they are all safe and sound.   Even though my brother and his wife have been without power since Monday, they are keeping warm due to Tim's ingenuity.  They have a pellet stove in their finished basement and he has it rigged to heat their whole house.   He also has a whole house generator so they have been able to power their refrigerator and lights.   The most frustrating thing for Denise has been that they have no tv or internet, so, they have not seen the pics of the devastation along the Jersey shore.

While all this was going on up north, we took Molly to the vet to get spayed on Tuesday.    She has been a little loopy from the pain meds we've been giving her.   When I take her outside to pee, she just sits on the pavers and looks around, totally confused about why she is out there.   It's been hilarious to watch her be so disoriented, especially since she is always such a smart dog.   The pills have helped her to sleep a lot and she usually finds a cozy spot to crash, this time it was on a living room chair.

On Thursday our carpenter, Shawn, showed up and picked up the wood we had purchased last December (remember my birthday present?) and took it back to his shop to cut and shape it.   He returned Friday with a helper and the two of them put up my swing/arbor.   It's done!   Yay!!!

Now I just have to prime and paint it and enjoy!!!    And it only took 10 months ............just kidding.   The next project for Shawn is the orchid house.   That'll be fun, too.
After I paint it I need to install the plant material around it and bring in more seashells as a floor.  That shouldn't be too hard to accomplish over the next few weeks.

Oh, yeah, I also used transplants to get our garden in this week, too.   I'm telling you, what a week!
Debbie

Monday, October 29, 2012

Happy Fall, Y'all

Since Hurricane Sandy and a low jet stream has brought us lots of wind and cooler temperatures it feels much more like fall.   Instead of high  80's with humidity, it is in the low 60's with no humidity and lots of wind.   Yeah!   I finally have all my windows open.

I decided to send a little surprise to Jeremy and our nephew, Tyler, who is in his first semester away at Moravian College.  These guys love to snack so I bought a container for each of them and filled them with the following mix:  square pretzels, mini Reese's pieces, kettle corn, Cheese Its, honey roasted peanuts, and cashews.  Yum!  Then I topped them both off with a label and a note and sent them cross country.  

Hope they enjoy their surprise.   When they've finished eating their snacks they can use the container to hold chips, or in Jeremy's case, rice or pasta.

More shipments to come,
Debbie

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Here Comes Winter

When Joel and Jeremy arrived in South Dakota the area was having a mild warm up for a few days.   The guys walked around in short sleeved shirts during the day and used light jackets at night.  Well, this morning Jeremy texted me and this is what he woke up to......
Yes, during the night sleet and snow had come down.   He said it's only about 1/2", but it was enough for him to fashion a small snowball from the snow on his balcony.   He was pretty excited as he has only seen snow once before when we were in Pennsylvania at my brother's house.  I can't wait to see how he reacts to a foot or two of the white stuff!

New Beginnings,
Deb

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Taking a Break

So I need to take a break from all the stress of the last two weeks.   The best way I know how to decompress is to work out in my yard.   It doesn't matter if I'm planting veggies in the garden or figuring out what new plants to put into our landscape, working in the sunshine with the breeze in my face lifts my spirits.

Recently I planted a living wreath using succulents.  I purchased a wire form online at Kinsman Gardening and lined it with sphagnum moss, then planted many different varieties of succulents to fill it in.   After letting the roots of the plants take hold for more than a week I hung it on our side gate that leads to the backyard.

Of course, the gate was kinda dreary, so I painted it a coral pink!  Then it seemed like that whole area needed just a bit more color and I pulled out 2 old purses and hung them from plant hangars and planted coleus and begonias in them.   Ok, now you're talkin'!!!


All of this is outside my sewing room studio, giving me something cheerful to look at while I work.  What do you think of it?   Joel just shook his head.....LOL.

The old gate we repurposed from up at the river was replanted with the vine (not sure if it's bleeding heart or fuschia) that we had up there and now it has gone nuts!   It is blooming like mad and looking really pretty.



Now if I could just find the time to finish planting my veggie garden.   I'm a little behind this year......gee, I wonder why?
Debbie

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

A Pictorial for You

Beautiful Sioux Falls

Right in the middle of the city!   Joel and Jeremy were really excited about visiting the falls in between errands.   Jeremy is so stoked about his new city and he says he loves his apartment.   Tonight the guys are having dinner with an old colleague of Joel's from our days in Kansas City.   She and her husband live 10 minutes from Jeremy now!    Amazing, isn't it?

Doing better,
Debbie

Smooth Sailing.......mostly

The trip was mostly uneventful for Joel and Jeremy, they made it to central Georgia Friday night and just south of St. Louis, Mo late Saturday night.   They got an early start Sunday and 20 minutes into their drive the truck swerved and Joel limped to the shoulder of the interstate......on a slightly mountainous curve......under a craggy cliff.   The axle on the trailer towing the Jeep broke and one of the wheels was at a 45 degree angle and rubbing and creating a lot of smoke.  

Joel called Penske who said it would be 90 minutes till they could get there so Joel called the State Troopers who were there in a matter of minutes.   At least their flashing lights would give some protection to their broken down rig.    The trooper said he couldn't stay there very long and they decided to unload Jeremy's Jeep and have Joel drive 2 exits with the broken down trailer while Jeremy and the trooper followed.   That worked well and they ended up at a truck stop and waited for Penske.   The breakdown could have been a whole lot worse and they felt they were protected by the hand of God because Joel said where they were it would have been easy for the trailer to flip.  

Their little detour cost them four hours Sunday and made it a really long, tiring day of driving.  The guys arrived in Sioux Falls late Sunday night and were welcomed by our friends who generously opened their home to two weary travelers.   They sat down to enjoy a couple of cold beers and chat.   Both Joel and Jeremy were relieved to get a good night's sleep.  

Monday morning Sue made them scrambled eggs and filled them with coffee to prepare them for the busy day ahead.   By 10am they were at the apartment complex signing the papers for Jeremy's first apartment.  But first I need to tell you how they got this apartment.   Jeremy and I had been looking online at different apartments in the southern part of the city which puts him close to his work in Canton.  We had an hour to kill Friday before Joel got home from work, so we got on the computer once again to scope out what apartments were available.   I had a list all compiled for Joel to use to weed out apartments that weren't potentials.

On a whim, I decided to call the one that was at the top of our wish list.   I spoke to Patty who is the manager there and explained that Jeremy would be moving from Florida and that we had a short window to find him a place to live.   She said that all her one bedroom units were taken until Dec. 1st.  Yikes!   Apparently the apartment availabilites were slim pickings as she said they were having the best year for rentals in 15 years.   Hmmmmm......guess a lot more people are moving to Sioux Falls.

Jeremy and I continued to call about other apartments and were about to pack the last things into the truck when our phone rang.  It was Patty.   She said that this never happens, but someone just backed out of a one bedroom........on the second story......in the building that allows dogs.......with the criteria we had given her.    Amazing!   Once again, God provided!  And it is our first choice.....

She faxed us the application and we filled it out and sent it back.   By the time the guys were getting into the truck on Friday, she had called us back and said he had been approved and he could move in on Monday.   So that's exactly what they did......by noon Monday Joel had hired two guys to help lift the furniture and boxes and they completely emptied the truck by midafternoon.   Joel and Jeremy returned the truck and began unpacking boxes.

So now Joel can leave Wednesday knowing Jeremy is in a great apartment in a safe neighborhood close to shopping and entertainment and the church he hopes to attend.  There is even a washer/dryer in his unit.  He has a balcony and says he intends to buy a small grill so he can cookout all year long.   He will have parking in the underground garage so he won't even have to dig his car out of the snow to go to work every day.
Whew!    What a crazy couple of days!

Worrying less,
Debbie


Monday, October 22, 2012

Two Thumbs Up!

I tried to type this post all weekend, but just couldn't make myself do it.   Saying goodbye to Jeremy was just too fresh a pain in this mama's heart.   But I'm feeling a little better today and decided this morning to finally look at the last pics I took as Joel and Jeremy were preparing to leave our house.

Friday after work, both guys got into comfortable traveling clothes while I packed a cooler full of snacks for them to take in the truck.  Jeremy loaded a couple last minute items in the Jeep and we all tried our best to avoid what was coming next.  Saying this kind of goodbye is new to us as Jeremy has lived with us his whole life, even when he went to school.
First I got a picture of the traveling duo in front of the trailer.   Then, it was Joel's turn behind the camera to get one last shot of Jeremy and I together.
I tried my best not to cry......I think we all did, but that didn't work very well.  Jeremy's dog, Winston, didn't know what all the fuss was about and he just stood quietly while Jeremy loved on him one last time.   At some point in the future, we will either take Winston out there or Jeremy will come and get him.  But for now, Jeremy has enough on his plate getting settled and starting a whole new life in a whole new part of the country.
We couldn't avoid it any longer, the guys really needed to get on the road.  We had one last group hug while Joel prayed as we hugged each other and quietly sobbed in our front yard.  They loaded the cooler and their cell phones into the truck cab and clicked their seat belts and I got one final "thumbs up" from them both just before they pulled out.
Watching them drive off was one of the toughest moments I've had in a very long time.
Now all three of our kids are off in the world making their own way.   I"m really proud of all of them, but I'm sure most moms will agree with me that it's really hard letting go.  Now it's time for Jeremy to find his own way and see what the world has to offer.

And now what?   I'm not really sure!  It hasn't sunk in yet that Joel and I will be alone for the first time in our 27 plus year marriage.  I am still really busy with Pink Florida Threads, but there is a hole here and I'm not quite sure that I should fill it just yet.   One thing is certain, the next year is going to be very interesting for Jeremy AND Joel & I!

See what happens,
Debbie